| As a dating coach, one of the top questions that I | | | | 2) When to flirt - Flirt when you are truly |
| get is,"How to seduce a shy man." | | | | interested, flirt when you want the other person |
| Well the answer is easily. Shy men are usually | | | | to feel good, flirt when you are feeling good |
| grateful to have you approach them. They may | | | | yourself. There is no hard and fast rule about |
| be in absolute love or lust with you but feel like it | | | | flirting. |
| will never happen because they can not drum up | | | | 3) When not to flirt - Don not take your level of |
| the nerve to approach you. | | | | flirting farther than you want to go. Don not flirt |
| Just like we sometimes think guys are out of our | | | | with someone you know really likes you if you do |
| league, men sometimes feel the same way about | | | | not share those feelings. Don not flirt with |
| us. They are afraid of being ridiculed and rejected. | | | | someone whos job might be at stake if taken |
| A shy guy may have this fear in abundance. | | | | the wrong way. Do not flirt with your best friends |
| By approaching him, you take that pressure | | | | boyfriend. |
| away. Do it slowly. Strike up a conversation the | | | | Walk into the situation knowing that you are |
| first time. Invite him for coffee the next, etc. | | | | beautiful, desireable, funny and intelligent. You may |
| Try to get him to laugh at a joke. Humor is a | | | | end up being the one to ask him out. |
| great way to break the ice and put him at ease. | | | | A confident woman always looks more attractive. |
| Also give him non verbal signs that you are | | | | Do whatever it takes to achieve that confidence. |
| interested. | | | | 1) Take the time to fix yourself up before leaving |
| I will break this down in to three parts: | | | | home. |
| 1) How to Flirt - You can do more flirting with | | | | 2) Put on a scent that makes you feel sexy. |
| your eyes than with any other technique. Look at | | | | 3) Dress in a way that makes you feel desireable |
| him then look away then look back again. Or | | | | without exposing too much. |
| stare him right in the eyes and hold his gaze then | | | | 4) Plan topics of conversation ahead of time, if |
| smile real slow. | | | | you like. |
| Use the quick lip lick. The hair toss. The hair curl | | | | 5) Take beauty classes or etiquette classes if you |
| around the finger technique. | | | | feel that will help. |
| Try this eyebrow raise, that I mention in my | | | | 6) Develop one area of yourself that you excel |
| book. Do a double to really get his attention. | | | | at and you will have a topic of conversation that |
| We are all born with the ability to flirt. Look at | | | | you can talk passionately about. That passion will |
| any two year old and you can see it. We start | | | | come through in the flush of your cheeks and the |
| flirting young then end up getting guilted out of | | | | sparkle in your eyes. |
| doing it or warned against doing it because of | | | | Once he understands that you really like him, Mr. |
| office politics. You know how. You are simply out | | | | Shy guy may be ready to direct a few interesting |
| of practice. So that is your fun assignment for | | | | suggestions in your direction. |
| the day - practice, practice, practice. | | | | |